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All of my friends constantly say I am spoiled, and are quite rude about it and frankly I do not brag or boast nor am I condescending.

Some defining things I suppose:
-iphone 4s
-brand new laptop
-my dad drives a hummer 2
-my mother drives a 2011 Lexus SUV
-My house is worth over a million
-I have a lake house
-New Skiboat
-ATVs
-my dad has his fixed up ‘project’ car
-I got a car before I got my permit, not that expensive like 15,000
-My makeup collection is really expensive , MAC, NARS, etc
-Closet full of clothes, brands like: Juicy Couture, Hudson, Joe Brand jeans, Miss me jeans, Steve madden, a few things from A&F and Gap, etc.
-I have over 30 pairs of shoes, i love shoes :)
-Big collection of designer purses: Marc Jacobs, Juicy Couture, Betsey Johnson, Coach, etc.
-Gucci Sunglasses
-Dior and Coach perfumes
-Tiffany & Co. Ring
-Used to go to an expensive private school
- Go on expensive vacations like go to NYC, Maui, Cancun, etc.
- my mom doesn’t work
-I have never had a job
-my graduation present is a Louis Vuitton handbag of my choice.

I am sure this sounds braggy, but I am trying to show material possessions so you guys get a good idea. I don’t brag, but if my friends are talking about what they got shopping and I chime in saying something I got they say im spoiled. Sigh. I am very thankful for the life my parents have given me, and I love them very much and try to help them when they need it. Family is very important to me and I spend a lot of time with my family, because I know time is precious.

So am I spoiled/rich?
I am trying to do something positive for my life, next year I will be starting schooling and I aspire to be a nurse, specializing in cardiovascular surgeries. That way I can help save lives, because I know first hand the effects of illness, my father is terminally ill. To answer one person, I find it very rude for you to accuse my mother of being a gold digger, my parents were not wealthy at all when I was first born, struggled to make ends meet, but after my father started his own business things turned around quite fast. So please do not make assumptions on things you know nothing about.

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11 Responses

  1. CHEESE0728 says:

    Yo are spoiled/rich but it’s ok because you don’t brag about it and you are thankful for the things you have. Your friends are probably just jealous but if you want to avoid being called spoil by them i guess you could just say what you got shopping if they ask you. Hope I helped. :)

  2. Jon G says:

    Yes

  3. Jenny says:

    :D Your definatly spoiled !:D In a good way though .;) My friends say the exact same thing to me!xD Anyways its not your fault so dont feel guilty.!:) Enjoy everything you have!:D

  4. calzrhe says:

    People are born with
    People are born without
    Some people have
    and others want
    what some go without
    Some people live free
    Some people just want more
    as for me I
    got allll that I need
    don’t got much but I
    gooooot what I need
    yeahh mmmm
    ohhh ohhh ohh ohhhh ohh ohhhhhhhh

    I feel spoiled and lucky for being able to eat a chicken, instead of being the chicken being eaten.

  5. Cory says:

    Well I’m tempted to say YES, but the fact is, you don’t know any better. You’ve had this stuff your entire life so you probably can’t imagine life any other way.

    My house is absolutely tiny and I’m lucky if I leave the state once a year. There are people much, much, much worse of than me. As long as you realize that and never brag like you say, then you’re fine in my opinion.

  6. Mir Quasem says:

    You just prove that you are not spoiled.

  7. Melinda Sue Fritz says:

    u a re s poiled off your parents money

  8. Shredder7 says:

    You are indeed spoiled. While you have superflous possesions, children around the world starve to death. While you are vacationing in your lake house, children die of common diseases because they are too poor to buy $10 worth of medicine. While you are driving your $15K car, people are going bankrupt and losing their homes. While you and your mother sit at home reveling in your affluence, millions of people (including my father and grandmother) work 12 hours a day just to make ends meet. You are spoiled and rich and you should donate to a charity. I can only take solace in the fact that I am considerably smarter than you. Also, your mother aounds like a golddigger.

  9. Iampicard says:

    I suspect you know the answer to both questions. The real question is are you trying to do something positive with your life. As you say you are very thankful for the start your parents have given you, now it’s up to you to do something with that. Make something of your educational and employment opportunities and do some real work for other people. If you start doing this then your friend will stop even thinking that you are spoilt – and there is nothing wrong with being rich so long as you are earning it and giving something back. Sounds like you have a great start in life, make the most of it.

  10. Craig says:

    @ “Shredder7″ you sound like one depressing individual. And contrary to what you have posted, you don’t sound at all intelligent. Perhaps this person/their family does donate to charity. It’s really none of your business. So because there are less fortunate people in the world, everyone should simply sell all worldly possessions, give up everything but the bare necessities, and try to live like you, because you are truly the model citizen. I mean seriously GET OVER YOURSELF. Here’s an idea. Sell your computer, along with anything else which you would deem “excess” and give the profits to your father/grandmother. Because surely they need the money more than you, right? Better yet, quit school, quit your job and go straight to Africa to aid these poor people you rant endlessly about. We both know you won’t do either of those aftermentioned things, because you are selfish hypocrite who likes to put others down and act “holier than thou.” Also, HOW DARE YOU imply that someone YOU DON’T EVEN KNOW is a GOLD DIGGER. What would an idiot like you know? You like to spill your poison at the person asking this question, then act like a regular missionary. What good have you contributed to society? Zero, that’s what.

    Now, to the asker. No, dear, I would not call you spoiled. You live a very comfortable life, but that’s certainly not a bad thing. I would say most young people today are spoiled. Very rarely do young people NOT get whatever they ask for from their parents, within reason, at least where I live. It’s when one becomes a brat about it that it becomes a problem, which you most certainly are not. You seem quite modest about your fortunate life, and anyone who says otherwise is ignorant or jealous. Most likely both.

    I certainly don’t have the luxeries that you do. I’m an 18-year old guy and live a very average life. I’m attending school next year, but currently work 40-50 hours a week as a clerk, and I only make $10.25 an hour. I know that’s a lot of money in some parts of the world, but not in this part. In our part of the world, $10.25/hour makes things very difficult sometimes. I’m not even using my own computer to type this, it’s my brother’s who is visiting me. I’d like to be attending school right now, but due to financial problems, this is not possible at the moment. Perhaps if I do everything right and follow a strict budget next year is a possibility, but I doubt it. I’m getting a good deal of financial support from my parents, but it only just keeps me out of the red.

  11. Aubrey Kline says:

    you seem like you live a little exess in life, but you seem very greatful for it and seem to look past all the material stuff and love your parents for them and not just the stuff they have given you. its funny because when my one friend and i go to the mall she could go to all the expensive places but for some reason we always end up back at sears.
    and good luck with your nursing i hope you do well!

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